Col. 4:7-18
“Final Greetings”
Remember how Paul began his letter after the initial
greeting? “We always thank God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, when we pray for
you…” (v. 3). Until he changes to the first person singular (“I”) starting at
v. 23, he speaks in the first person plural (“we”). This is understandable
because he identified the sender as himself and Timothy (v. 1).
But as we come to the final greetings section, we get a more complete
picture of who the “we” were at the beginning of the letter. The letter might
have been sent formally by Paul and Timothy but there were many more people
involved.
First of all, we have the people designated as the couriers of the letter: Tychicus and Onesimus (vv. 7-9). Tychicus is described as “a beloved brother and faithful
minister and fellow servant in the Lord” (v. 7). Onesimus
is described as “our faithful and beloved brother, who is one of you” (v. 9).
By the way Paul describes them, we can sense that they were much more than just
a couple of delivery men. Their responsibility was not just to deliver the
letter as common couriers. Theirs also was the responsibility to personally tell
the church(es) all about Paul’s activities and in
doing so encourage their hearts (v. 8), to tell them of everything that had
taken place surrounding Paul’s imprisonment (v. 9). You see, they were to
encourage the Colossians by sharing how Paul was doing in prison, how, even in prison,
his apostolic ministry did not stop but continued in his prayer for the churches,
in his correspondence with them and his coordination of missionary and pastoral
activities of his coworkers. If he could not be out there in the mission field
because of his imprisonment, his prison would be the missions command center.
Nothing could stop his labor for the Lord. For the Lord he served saved him
through His death. Death did not stop our Lord from saving us; rather it was
used as an instrument of our salvation, leading Him to His glorious
resurrection. Then neither can imprisonment or any kind of tribulation stop us
from serving our resurrected Lord! “Christ will be honored in my body, whether
by life or by death” (Phil.
In the next section (vv. 10-14) we have a collection of what is called “the
third person greetings”. Here we see Paul greeting the Colossians on behalf of
his fellow workers. Mentioned are Aristarchus, who is
described as Paul’s “fellow prisoner”, Mark the cousin of Barnabas and Jesus
who is called Justus (v. 10). Paul also adds that they are the only Jewish men
among his fellow workers for the
In the next section (vv. 15-17) we have Paul giving his instructions to the
Colossians to greet others on his behalf: he is asking them to be his
messenger. This is where we learn about other churches, such as the Laodicean church as well as the house church in Nympha’s house (v. 15). Paul asks that his letter be read
among the Colossians as well as in the
In the final verse (v. 18), Paul “autographs” the letter, asks them to
remember his chains and gives his benediction, “Grace be with you”.
So what are we to make of this final section? Why should these personal
things be included in the Bible, the Canon of Christianity?
We must recognize that these greetings were personal because they involve
specific individuals, not because they were trivial in any way. We must not
forget that these greetings were the greetings of Paul the apostles. As such,
they still retained an official character. But as personal greetings,
they give us brief yet intimate snapshots into Paul’s ministry as well as the
life of the
First, we learn that Paul did not carry out his apostolic ministry alone. It
is true that the apostolic office was quite exclusive. Although there were
others who were also called “apostles”, the Twelve Apostles were recognized as
a distinct, exclusive group of leaders in the Christian community from the
earliest days. Paul was later on added to this group as he was handpicked by
the resurrected Lord on the road to
Pay attention to the diversity, which characterized the makeup of Paul’s brothers and fellow workers. Even in our passage we see both Jews and Gentiles. And as we shall see, there was a runaway slave (i.e., Onesimus, v. 9) as well as those with enough resources to host a church in their homes (e.g., Nympha, v. 15). All those who received the gospel of Jesus Christ were “brethren” to Paul, whether Jews or Gentiles, whether they were converted by his own ministry or by others. To Paul, these converts were his brothers and it was not just in name only. His newly established relationship with them in Jesus Christ was not just an idea, just a fact that he recognized to be true but without any real, practical, tangible effects in his life and actions. He treated these converts and interacted with them as his brethren. How do we know that?
He did not hesitate to work with them. We all know that it
is one thing to say, “I accept you” and another to be willing to actually work
with him. And think about what was the context in which Paul labored and what
his coworkers meant for him. His ministry took him to the frontline of the war
between the domain of darkness and the kingdom of God’s beloved Son (
So in this inner circle of Paul’s ministry we not only find Jewish Christians but also Gentiles rich and poor and even a runaway slave. What mattered to Paul was not their ethnic background or social status but their faith in Christ and God’s calling. Thus the diversity of those who made up his inner circle of coworkers as well as the unity among them.
What we see in Paul’s circle of coworkers is a snapshot of
the new covenant community formed under the lordship of Jesus Christ. As it is
the new covenant community, it
replaces the old covenant community, which was almost exclusively made up of
the physical descendants of Abraham, who were sealed with the physical sign of
circumcision. But the new covenant community is formed by “a circumcision made
without hands”, “by the circumcision of Christ” (
Add to that the newness of the new covenant! The new covenant is new not just because it comes after the old covenant; it is new in a permanent sense--that is, there is nothing newer coming after it! The new covenant in Jesus Christ will not be replaced with a newer covenant--this is it! It is the final, everlasting, eternal covenant! It is an unbreakable, infallible, fail-safe and perfect covenant. But how can this be when we say, “Promises are made to be broken”? If we can have an unbreakable covenant, it is only because it is based on the perfect work of Jesus Christ. Who of us can guarantee that we will never change, never fail? And if we are bound to fail, how can our covenant be unbreakable? That is why we needed a covenant of grace and God graciously granted it to us. This covenant is of grace because the Son of God fulfills our covenant responsibilities in our place for us! Because He paid the penalty of our sins and fulfilled our duties, it is able to deliver us from sin and hell and usher us safely into the kingdom of heaven! Because the new covenant is based upon Christ’s perfect work, there can be nothing better or newer. If this new covenant is able to usher us into heaven, what more do we need? Is there anything better than heaven?
It is precisely because the new covenant community is an
important part of the kingdom of heaven, it is to reflect the character of
heaven. Its citizens are not judged according to the standards of the fallen
world--according to one’s social, economic status, according one’s educational
or professional accomplishments, or according to one’s appearance. What matters
in the new covenant community is one’s allegiance to Christ and his faithfulness
to Christ’s calling. Take a look at some of the ways in which Paul describes
his coworkers: Tychicus, “a beloved brother and faithful
minister and fellow servant in the Lord” (v. 7); Onesimus,
“our faithful and beloved brother, who is one of you” (v. 9); Aristarchus, “my fellow prisoner” (v. 10); Epaphras, “a servant of Christ Jesus” (v. 12). And their
work? Of great comfort to Paul (v. 11); “always struggling on your behalf in
his prayers, that you may stand mature and fully assured in all the will of
God” (v. 12); working hard for the
This new covenant community is also a community of reconciliation. Reconciliation is mandated and motivated by Jesus Christ, who, through His death, reconciled us to God and to one another. We already mentioned Onesimus. Do you know his story? He was a runaway slave to Philemon. In his letter to Philemon, Paul asks Philemon to receive his runaway slave, Onesimus, as his brother in the Lord! Can you believe that! What a thing to ask--not only to forgive but also to receive him and honor him as his brother? Yet I am certain that Philemon could not mock at Paul’s plea. For he must have known from his association with Paul that the Apostle himself would have done what he was asked to do! All we have to do is to take another look at the list of Paul’s brothers and coworkers and how he received both Jews and Gentiles, especially as a former Pharisee to receive Gentiles in the flesh as his brothers and as his coworkers, in fact as his comrades in battle, to trust them enough to watch his back!
But even more telling is what Paul says concerning Mark the
cousin of Barnabas. If you recall, there was a rift between Barnabas and Paul
over Mark. Mark was with Barnabas and Paul at the beginning of their first
missionary journey (Acts 13:5). But soon Mark left them and returned to
Brothers and sisters, that is the power of the gospel! We can’t say, “You
cross me once and that is it!” If there is genuine repentance, there is genuine
acceptance. And that is what the world needs to see in the
But we must also remember that this new covenant community
is not yet perfected. Included in this list is Demas. We hear of Demas again in
2 Tim. 4:10. There Paul says to Timothy, “Demas, in love with this present world,
has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica….” For Demas to be included in Paul’s
circle of coworkers, he must have demonstrated many godly characteristics and
actions. But he went astray on account of his love for the world. We don’t know
what happened to Demas, whether he repented of his love for the world and
returned to faith and service in the end. But he is a sober reminder of Peter’s
words in 2 Pet. 1:10: “Therefore, brothers, be all the more diligent to make
your calling and election sure.” For we know that such a defector was present
even in the inner circle of Jesus’ Twelve Disciples. For now the wheat grows
together with the tares. “Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take
heed lest he fall” (1 Cor.
Let me conclude. If Paul did not minister alone, it was not
because he was a needy guy, who was deathly afraid of being alone, was it?
Neither was it simply because he was a great strategist and tactician, who knew
how to work with people and bring the best out of them. Nor was it because he
was just a practical guy, who knew that there was too much work to be done and
he could not do it all alone. What are we to see in all this--the manner of Paul’s
ministry and the rich variety of the new covenant community? Jesus Christ, the
Foundation, the Head and the Lord of His church. As Paul declared in the
beginning of the letter, “He is the head of the body, the church. He is the
beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be
preeminent. For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell, and
through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven,
making peace by the blood of his cross” (
If the church is rich in its diversity, it is because He is the Lord of all,
the Lord of heaven and earth and all that they contain! If Paul did not
minister alone, if Christians are not to live out their Christian life and do
ministry alone, it is because Christ Himself has designed it that way! That
design humbles us because none of us is capable of doing it all alone. As
finite, limited creatures, we need one another. We are the individual voices that
make up the heavenly choir. The heavenly song, the redemptive chorus, cannot be
sung just with the sopranos. We need the altos. We need the tenors. We need the
basses. This song of redemption, which God composed and Christ conducts and the
Holy Spirit accompanies, is so rich, so intricate, so harmonious that it takes
into account every member and the unique tone and color of each voice! We cannot
sing this song alone. We cannot belch out whenever and however we feel like. We
must listen for one another. We must keep in step with one another. There is
the music score to be followed by everyone according to God’s direction. We’ve
got to keep our eyes on Christ, the great Conductor. But we must also listen to
one another and keep the beat.
Of course, life may be easier if we don’t bother about other people. Life
may be easier that way but not richer: we can have an easy life but we cannot
have a rich life without one another. We will miss the rich choral harmony of
Christ’s music. But we must be motivated by something more than the glory and
beauty of Christ’s chorus. For the true excellence of His song is veiled by our
imperfection, for now, to say the least. None of us sings the note perfectly.
Our pitches are off often and so is our timing. Someone is singing too loud and
another is not singing loud enough. It is easy to be discouraged and
disappointed. There is no doubt that our song will be perfect when we sing
before God in our heavenly glory. But for now, we are faced with our
imperfections and the imperfections of other saints. Yes, being together with
others may be more depressing than encouraging at times, or quite often. But we
must not, and we cannot, retreat back into our individual foxholes. We still
need one another, both in positive and negative ways. We need help from others
because we are not self-sufficient. But we also need--yes, need!--to lend our
helping hands to grow in our spiritual maturity. For we do not grow just by
taking in and in and in; we need to give out and exercise our gifts. Christ has
placed us together so that we can show the love of Christ to one another. But
we must also not forget that Christ has put us together to help one another
grow in patience, in Christ-like patience, because we have to deal with those
who are imperfect, to say the least.
But even more importantly, if we must accept one another as brethren and
work together as co-workers, it is because Christ has accepted us as His
brethren and works together with us as His co-workers. We must not forget: it
is Christ and Christ alone, who can build His church--a church that is
completely free not only from sin but also from every tinge of blemish and
imperfection. He alone is able to build such a church. Yet He builds His church
through His imperfect people, people who are still sinful. So then, it cannot
be because He needs our help, is it? Left to ourselves, we would only hinder
the work, not help! He works in and through and with us not because of anything
we can contribute--after all, what do we have that we did not receive from Him?
He works in and through and with us because He wants to build us up to conform
to His own image. This is undoubtedly “more work” for Christ. We know that,
sometimes, it is easier to do it ourselves. It is “more work” to work with
others. Yet He is only glad to work with us to train us and build us up. If so,
how can we not bear with one another and work together, especially when we do
need one another and their gifts? What is more, let us not forget who our
fellow saints are. They are our “brothers”. Even more importantly, they are
“servants of Christ”! They need our love and respect and all the cooperation we
can give because Christ has received them as His servants, as His co-workers. So
Paul did not think it beneath him to work with others because he was an
Apostle.
Just take a look around you. God has already blessed this small
congregation with the richness of His kingdom. The bond that we have is thicker
than blood. The unity that we have is deeper than the superficial common
grounds of the world--our social status, our economic class, our educational
background, our ethnicity. Let us work together. Let us accept one another as
brothers and coworkers! In doing so, let the light of this glory shine in and
through us. There is choice to be made: is it about us or about Christ? Is it
about our ease and the security of our comfort zone or is it about His glory? We
belong to the marvelous
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